<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193</id><updated>2011-04-21T20:22:52.007-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Backward Compatible</title><subtitle type='html'>Weblog of &lt;a href="mailto:sevets@mindspring.com"&gt;H. Tim Sevéts&lt;/a&gt;</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>11</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-7451963826259243623</id><published>2007-09-06T07:09:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-06T07:09:17.374-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>I know that many people are looking for legitimate ways to make a living online.  The best program I have found is called Blogging To The Bank.  I've devoted a whole &lt;a href="http://www.bankingontheblog.com/"&gt;web site&lt;/a&gt; to it &lt;a href="http://www.bankingontheblog.com/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.   Or, you can go directly to &lt;a href="http://www.bloggingtothebank.com/?hop=stephennc"&gt;the source&lt;/a&gt; to find out more.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-7451963826259243623?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/7451963826259243623'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/7451963826259243623'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2007_09_02_archive.html#7451963826259243623' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-80502670</id><published>2002-08-20T22:15:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-08-20T22:15:54.523-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>North Carolina has one of the fastest growing Hispanic populations in the U.S.  This surprises many people, but it's true.  They come here for the agriculture jobs, or more precisely for the agriculture processing jobs, and many settle down here for good.  As you might expect, many of the native North Carolinians (both black and white) don't like this too much.  But I think that if southerners took a long, calm look, they would find that they have many affinities with the immigrants -- including characteristics &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; known to be shared by fellow Americans north of the Mason-Dixon line.  These include politeness (which can include a reluctance to say "no" even when "no" is the correct answer), and a ma&amp;#241;ana attitude that can drive gringos and Yankees absolutely bonkers.  One time I was in a copy center in Atlanta with a friend who happened to be from California.  My friend struck up a conversation with another customer, who was also from outside the South.  This other customer had just asked the manager of copy center if he had finished the job she had left the day before; the manager said he hadn't but would take of it "right now," then he disappeared into the back. The customer turned to my friend and, with an expression of disgust (and not realizing that I was one of "them"), said "They're &lt;i&gt;all &lt;/i&gt;like this."  "They" meaning southerners, of course.  Damn lazy southerners!  Damn lazy Mexicans!  (At least, like the Hispanics and their "ustedes," we were smart enough to fill in the gap of the missing second-person plural in the English language.  Right, ya'll?)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-80502670?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80502670'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80502670'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_08_18_archive.html#80502670' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-80259662</id><published>2002-08-14T23:32:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-08-15T12:25:01.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>Nighthawk scoops up bugs,&lt;br&gt;Vacuuming doomed mosquitoes,&lt;br&gt;Itself chased by dark.
&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-80259662?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80259662'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80259662'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_08_11_archive.html#80259662' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-80167176</id><published>2002-08-12T23:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-08-14T02:07:25.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>Here are some references to CoQ10 and gum disease: &lt;a href="http://www.epic4health.com/gumdisease.html"&gt;Epic 4 Health&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.aim4health.com/badgums.htm"&gt;Aim 4 Health&lt;/a&gt;, and this note: "People with poor gum health have been found to have low levels of coenzyme Q10. Controlled research has determined that supplementation with 60-100 mg/day of CoQ10 helps maintain healthy gums and provides protection against damage to gums" (at &lt;a href="http://www.natlife.com/PPS/CoQ10.htm"&gt;Nature's Life&lt;/a&gt;).  Hmmm ... and here's something &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; interesting I just noticed from the same Web page as that last reference: "&lt;i&gt;Human sperm fluid (semen) is rich in CoQ10&lt;/i&gt;, which appears to provide crucial antioxidant protection, and plays a role in optimum sperm function. Preliminary research suggests that CoQ10 supplementation can increase sperm count and motility and supports optimum male fertility." (Emphasis added.)  Ladies with gum disease, take note!

&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-80167176?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80167176'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80167176'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_08_11_archive.html#80167176' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-80166721</id><published>2002-08-12T22:49:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-08-14T23:22:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>I'm a great believer in magic pills, and tonight I can report that I've pretty definitely found one.  It's Coenzyme Q10 (aka CoQ10, aka Ubiquinone).  I started taking it a few months ago because it was being hyped everywhere as an energy booster.  Only later did I come across a few scattered references to its potential as a gum disease fighter.  I'm one of those people who doesn't floss, who brushes only desultorily, and who gets lectured to every six months by his dentist -- to no avail, of course.  Well, today I went for my checkup and the hygienist, followed by the dentist, were astounded.  They said I had made an amazing improvement: pink gums, infection gone, no bleeding, reduced pockets.  The dentist even said I had made the most improvement in six months of any patient he had ever seen.  Truth is, my brushing habits are as lousy as ever.  Had to have been the CoQ10.  I didn't let him in on my secret, though -- might as well let him believe his hectoring had finally pushed me to shape up in the oral hygiene department.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-80166721?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80166721'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80166721'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_08_11_archive.html#80166721' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-80115514</id><published>2002-08-11T20:32:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-08-11T20:32:22.983-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>"The Common Nighthawk nests in open areas unobstructed by trees or tall shrubs.  It will not nest in the seclusion of a forest." &lt;a href="http://tbba.cbi.tamucc.edu/accounts/coni/coniacc.htm"&gt;(See this site.)&lt;/a&gt;  Well, there's my problem.  I live in one of the most heavily wooded neighborhoods you can imagine.  We do have bats that come out chasing the mosquitoes every night.  And deer, and an occasional brown hawk, and snakes, and rabbits.  And a great blue heron appears at a neighborhood pond every winter to fish for frogs and crawfish.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-80115514?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80115514'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80115514'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_08_11_archive.html#80115514' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-80035037</id><published>2002-08-09T13:55:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-08-09T13:55:45.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>How's this for serendipity? I was just now randomly surfing "recently published" blogs from Blogger.com, and hit on a blog about birdwatching.  And what do you know, I found &lt;a href="http://birdstuff.blogspot.com/2002_07_01_BirdStuff_archive.html#85297432"&gt;this entry&lt;/a&gt; about the disappearance of nighthawks.  Seems I'm not the only one missing the little guys these summer nights.  (See my previous posts for July 26 and especially July 24 &lt;a href="http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_07_21_sevets_archive.html"&gt;somewhere on this page&lt;/a&gt;.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-80035037?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80035037'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/80035037'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_08_04_archive.html#80035037' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-79334268</id><published>2002-07-24T01:24:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-07-26T01:20:25.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;An Appreciation of Nighthawks&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;img src="http://www.estuarylive.org/reference/nighthawk.jpg" align=left vspace=3 alt="nighthawk"&gt;&lt;br&gt;During my walk last night it occurred to me that I don't see nighthawks anymore.  In the neighborhood where I grew up, you could see them at dusk, swooping and darting around the street lamps in drunken-looking flight.  What they were doing was feasting on mosquitoes and other insects, but of course you couldn't see that -- that fact came from my Little Golden Guide to Birds.  What you &lt;i&gt;could&lt;/i&gt; see was their silhouettes, the dark little bodies set off by white bars on the undersides of their swift-like wings. I miss them. They seemed like visitors from some secret world, popping into ours at one of the gaps -- the interstice between day and night in this case -- and then popping out again, having quickly and efficiently done what they had come for. Nighthawks are not hawks, of course; they are members of the goatsucker family of birds and, indeed, are related to the swifts. I'm going to be keeping an eye out for them on my walks now, though I think my present neighborhood environment is not conducive to the thriving of nighthawks ... too many damned trees.  Intuition tells me they prefer areas that are more open. Perhaps I'll have to go nighthawk hunting in a likelier area one of these twilights. If I don't end up getting arrested for wandering around other people's neighborhoods at nightfall, peering oddly at the streetlights, maybe I'll manage to start a fad for nighthawk spotting.
&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-79334268?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/79334268'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/79334268'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_07_21_archive.html#79334268' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-79330622</id><published>2002-07-23T23:45:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-07-24T00:20:40.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;I'm Turning 18, I Really Think So&lt;/b&gt;

God my life is so boring!!! and everything truly sucks right now, you know? I mean I thought Heather wanted to be my girlfriend the way she was always acting so hot for me and all OR SO I THOUGHT!!! well, OK, I acted like a 1st-class asshole that night over at Brenda and Eric's especially with me pretending to come on so heavy to Rhonda, but I assumed that Heather knew it was all a big joke ... didn't she??!!??  well, now even Tom is acting like a shit head to me. Well fuck 'em all is what I say. I have my own life -- lame and screwed up as it might royally be -- so I'll just sit here watching these stupid reruns of "Friends" (just kidding about the "stupid" -- that show really rocks!) and wasting hours of valuable time checking out other peoples' Blogs and seeing if anyone else out there is as screwed up and miserable as I am at the moment. And I've decided that if Heather calls me now (yeah I know, that's a truly big IF, I tell my idiot self), then I'll just ... uh, wait ... hold on a moment.  ... 

Sorry about that.  No, I'm not really 18, or anywhere near it.  And I don't write like that.  And my life is fine.  But I guess I did read one too many Weblogs tonight and they were starting to affect me.  Whew.  I'll try not to do &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; again.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-79330622?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/79330622'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/79330622'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_07_21_archive.html#79330622' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-79241404</id><published>2002-07-21T23:59:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2002-07-24T00:21:58.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;When I was a boy, the stretch of hours between midnight and about 5 a.m. seemed to be mysterious, forbidden territory. Staying up to watch the local Friday night fright movie on TV ... backyard campouts ... reading beneath the covers with a flashlight ... these activities pushed back the black wall a bit, but couldn't bring it completely down, not as long as I continued to fall asleep at &lt;i&gt;some&lt;/i&gt; point long before dawn. Then one night at the age of 13 or so I went to an all-night ham radio DX-pedition (think that's what they called it).  It was at a local armory, and my friend and I, both of us aspiring to get our ham licenses, hung out there with a roomful of older guys who sat at tables piled high with marvelous radio equipment and spent hour after hour calling into their microphones, trying to see how many contacts with other hams they could make in the time allotted for the event. We were even allowed to take the mic ourselves once or twice, and I managed to make contact with a ham who had set up a rig on the Battleship Texas down in Houston.  When we finally left the building to be picked up by one of our parents it was almost 8 in the morning. We had pushed right through the wall of night and emerged into the brightness on the other side, and I knew that something had been gained ... and something else lost forever.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561193-79241404?l=sevets.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/79241404'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561193/posts/default/79241404'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sevets.blogspot.com/2002_07_21_archive.html#79241404' title=''/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561193.post-77454334</id><published>2002-06-07T03:45:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2005-07-09T00:15:18.243-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I've been forcing myself to peek at other people's Weblogs, a mostly dreary undertaking.  &lt;!-- So many people typing away, so little, really, to say.  I'm beginning to appreciate the ones who say it in &lt;a href="http://2balles.cc/"&gt;languages&lt;/a&gt; other than English.  They relieve the tedium, since I don't have to actually read them, because I couldn't if I wanted to.  After all, I'm an American. Having the good fortune to be brought up to speak the master tongue, we need waste no time studying others, trying to memorize whether a chair is &lt;a href="http://www.frenchlesson.com/gender/index.html"&gt;male or female&lt;/a&gt; and other such idiocies.  When was the last time you spotted genitalia on a piece of furniture?  (Then again, what &lt;i&gt;was&lt;/i&gt; my La-Z-Boy doing on top of the Queen Anne Sofa that night I walked in on them unexpectedly?)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
It &lt;i&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; nice to memorize a some basic phrases of the lesser languages before traveling abroad.  The natives tend to fall all over themselves in gratitude when you toss a few of their own words at them, and the exercise doesn't even cost as much as throwing pocket change into the middle of some third-world beggar crowd just for the entertainment of observing the resulting melee.  I suspect, though, that even if I understood French, this &lt;a href="http://2balles.cc/"&gt;aforementioned site&lt;/a&gt; still wouldn't make much sense to me.  I can't even tell if it's a male or a female writing it, which underscores the truth of the maxim, "When human beings give gender to everything in the world, the world becomes filled with oversexed objects ... and neutered humans."  That's rather profound sounding, don't you think, for a maxim that didn't exit until ten seconds ago?  Feel free to &lt;a href="http://www.memecentral.com/"&gt;meme&lt;/a&gt; it all over the place now!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I like the French, though, and even feel something of a special, if rather tenuous, connection to them. First, there's the matter of that Francoform last name of mine.  Second, the only non-American I ever slept with was French.  She was a teacher of English, enjoying one of those obscenely long vacations that Europeans are always taking, and staying part of her time in this country with a friend and teacher of French from New Orleans.  I met the two women while standing in the registration line for a Unitarian-Universalist church conference held every summer on a small college campus in a small town in the Blue Ridge Mountains.  "Conference" is too formal a term, though, for this particular event.  What it was was summer camp for adults (though kids came to it too), and for singles it frequently ended up being a &lt;i&gt;swinging&lt;/i&gt; summer camp.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Francoise looked like she "just stepped out of a Paris café," as my friend and then-roommate, also there for the week-long conference, observed.  I think there &lt;i&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; a French "look," at least among the women, but I cannot put my finger on what it consists of.  Maybe it was the outfit she wore -- a white, sleeveless, cullotted thing, unbuttoned in front far enough for me to surmise that her great tan was an all-over one -- coupled with a certain confident, yet relaxed and open, way of carrying herself.  I struck up an easy, light-hearted conversation with her and her American host, the teacher from New Orleans.  The subject of jazz came up.  "You know," I said, "the word 'jazz' comes from the red-light district of New Orleans.  The houses of prostitution there hired piano players and other musicians to help entertain the clients.  One of the slang words they had for sexual intercourse was 'jass,' which got attached to the music they played in those places.  Pretty soon both the music and the word evolved into jazz." Both of the women seemed to find this an interesting story, but it was Francoise who, after more conversation and just before we parted, smiled gorgeously, moved closer to touch my arm, and arrested my gaze with eyes that shone with amusement, challenge, and, yes, I was sure I saw it: invitation.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That first night, at the conference's big kick-off party and dance, I sought her out.  We danced every dance together.  I learned that she was in her early 40s, about ten years older than I was at the time.  She had a son of about 12 or 13 who was traveling with her.  She told me about how he had gone rafting on the New River earlier that day, how he hit a rapid and was dumped from his raft, how he yelled for help to little avail, as he was yelling in French. She was divorced from her son's father.  She lived in one of those old stone French country houses (she sent me a photograph later), and she seemed to have traveled to almost every place in the world.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don't dance often, but there are times when, with the right woman, under the right circumstances, it intoxicates.  This was one of those times: A warm summer's evening, the crowd moving weaving around us, those silvery diamonds of light spun off a disco ball that suddenly didn't seem so ridiculous, the diamonds sliding over my clothes and hers, our slow turning and turning some more to a song that seemed destined to go on forever, and the scent of magnolias drifting in through open windows and mixing with the musky aroma of her skin to create a perfume that almost made me stagger.  I was drunk with the sensory excess of it all.  Later, outside, we kissed, and then I buried my face in the curve of her neck and smelled and then tasted her moist sweet-salty skin while she held me with arms that clung to the back of my perspiration-soaked shirt as she moved her hands up and began tickling my ears and scalp with her fingers.  My body was ready for her instantly.  I know she felt it where we pressed against one another, and her quick breaths and soft moans told me that were I to reach beneath her skirt and place my hand between her thighs, I would encounter heat and wetness there in exact complement to my own heat and hardness.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We managed finally to break our embrace, and we walked through the sultry air, across the campus to my building, and up a  flight of stairs to my assigned dorm room, where my roommate, damn it, was already firmly esconced for the night.  After some small talk, I walked Francoise back to her building, both of us knowing -- since her son would already be there -- that we would have to wait for another time to consummate our lust.  Rutting was not in the offing this night.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The next day I met her for lunch in the cafeteria.  We were both in a hurry to get to our next scheduled workshops.  She did invite me to accompany her to her room where she wanted to change clothes first.  This time the boy was absent.  I sat on her bed and half watched her pulling clothes out of drawers while I half "read" her U.S. travel guidebook, which was in French but which I was able to grasp the gist of, at least in places.  Guidebooks, like newspapers, are rather formulaic in how they present information, and since they both typically come supplied with photographs and an abudance of familiar proper names, it's usually not that hard to follow their "plot" even in a language which you don't speak.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I was distracted from my reading (or scanning if you prefer) by the sight of Francoise, standing at the foot of the bed and turned toward me, lifting her blouse over her head and tossing it on the dresser with a wonderful nonchalance.  Of course she wore no bra.  I gazed at her breasts for a moment, then looked up at her face.  She was smiling.  "Americans are so silly about breasts," she said.  Perhaps she meant that American men (me?) are ridiculously obsessed with boobs, but at the time I took her to be commenting on the fact that Americans in general are unduly squeamish about a woman exposing her breasts.  We talked about European topless and nude beaches, with which she was quite familiar, as she yanked a fresh blouse on.  I didn't mind the sudden cover-up.  I knew now, for sure, that very soon I would be not only seeing, but also caressing, every part of her body.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That evening Francoise and I, and her friend from New Orleans, drove to a mountain inn they had heard about.  There was a live jazz combo, and there was a bar where we sat and had drinks.  And there was a great view through some opened French doors, past a balcony, over a darkened valley where a few farmhouse lights shown far below, across to a mountain that had a road curving up and around it.  To a flatlander such as myself, there was something both haunting and romantic about seeing the occasional headlights appear out of nowhere, seemingly high in the sky, then slowly make their way down through the blackness, moving first in one direction and then another as they negotiated switchback curves, until they finally vanished into the valley below.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I decided this was the right time to try out the only French I knew on this French teacher of English and American teacher of French. "Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?" I said.  They both laughed, and Francoise said, "That's the one thing they &lt;i&gt;all&lt;/i&gt; know."  Thank you, &lt;a href="http://www.thesonglyrics.com/l_artists/lyrics/pattilabelle_lyric1.html"&gt;Patti Labelle&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Later I drove us all back to campus.  We dropped off the friend, and made a stop at Francoise's dorm to check on her son.  Then we drove to the other side of campus and parked outside my dorm building.  I didn't bother checking on my roommate, who, being an early-to-bed type (even on vacation), was almost certainly in our room asleep.  Instead, we climbed another flight or two of stairs to a floor that was completely unoccupied, and therefore silent and dark except for the faint glow of the corridor safety lights.  The empty rooms were unlocked, and we chose one at random.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don't remember that we even spoke.  I flipped on the restroom light so we wouldn't be completely in the dark, then, still standing, we embraced and exchanged one long, deep kiss.  We broke the embrace to undress.  I could make out her quick, fluid motions as she pulled off her blouse, then stepped out of her shorts and panties.  When she turned sideways to me, her breasts made a pleasing silhouette against the light.  When she turned back to me, I could discern few of her features, except that I could see against the darkness of her body, down below her belly, the black triangle indicating a luxuriant pubic bush, the kind that is such a delight because of the way it holds on to every droplet of its owner's juices.  As great as it feels to finger and explore a woman's every genital fold, the tactile pleasure is enhanced tenfold if those folds are surrounded by hair so thick it feels almost silky.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Naked together at long last, we sank onto the bed, fingers entwined, mouths finding one another again in the dark.  The night was hot and our bodies were hot, which made the coolness of the clean, crisp sheets an extra treat.  Extended foreplay apparently was not to be tonight; barely had I begun to kiss her neck, intending to lick my way slowly down to her breasts, before she had moved beneath me, opened her legs wide, grasped me firmly with her hand, and guided me into her.  No wonder.  I could tell that she had already reached the "point of melt."  This is what I call that moment when a woman's body becomes completely yielding and ready; I have noticed that the time to reach it is different for every woman and, indeed, for every lovemaking session.  I refer to it as a "point," though, because it happens so suddenly, even if the build-up to it has been long.  Suddenly: the hard ridge forming the edge of her upper lip becomes soft and no longer clearly defined.  Suddenly: her skin noticeably moistens.  Suddenly: Any remaining dry-feeling places inside her groove, or among the surrounding folds of flesh, or inside her vagina, completely vanish. Suddenly: Everything about her is yielding and soft ... except perhaps her nipples, which frequently (and delightfully) are hard and erect by now. It is as though something that was holding back has given way in one instant.  It is only then that I will enter her.  "The point of melt" is truly an exquisite event and signal!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Francoise was as ready as any woman I have ever been with.  I was as deep inside her as I could go, and still she seemed to want to pull in more of me, not just my penis, but my whole body and soul. I felt her hands on the back of my neck as she pulled my head down, pressing our mouths hard together, thrusting her tongue into my mouth with a violence that was as thrilling as it was surprising.  She wrapped her legs around my back and began kicking my ass with her heels, as if trying to spur me to go faster and faster. After a few moments of this I managed to forcibly break her leg hold so that I could back out of her.  I wanted to try something.  Holding my cock with one hand like an implement -- and enjoying the slippery feeling of her juices that now coated the shaft -- I pressed the tip against her clit and was rewarded with the sound of a groan, low and gutteral. Slowly at first, then with quickening circles, I moved my cock's head around and around the swollen little knob, until she hissed, "Non! Tim, non!" and I felt fingernails digging into my back and I was suddenly inside her again and thrusting like mad and then she was coming. It was like a dam had burst, for suddenly warm liquids were gushing around my cock, spurting a little with every new spasm of her body.  It was an ejaculation, definitely, the first I had ever witnessed in a woman.  I reached my hands beneath us and felt the bedsheet; it was soaked. To observe a female orgasm this powerful and this, well, &lt;i&gt;copious&lt;/i&gt;, ratcheted my own aching need a notch higher, which was all it took for me to explode deep inside her.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thus climaxed our first night of lovemaking. There would be three more sessions that week, including one time in a dormitory shower where we had sex in a standing embrace as warm water splashed over us and trickled teasingly between our legs and over the swollen flesh of our "connection." &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I never saw Francoise again, though we exchanged post cards for a while, and I told her of my desire to visit France and to see her there. But, it was not to be.  Ah, well.&lt;/p&gt; --&gt;
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